This blog is dedicated to a very special person, who motivated and encouraged me to write this blog.. A wonderful human being..!!
I thank you from the bottom of my heart..
Love...
According to me, a FRIEND has no perfect definition..
You can define it the way you like.. Depending on your experience(I hope you understand the hidden meaning)..
The Oxford dictionary defines a friend as, "a person with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically one exclusive of sexual or family relations..."
I'm sure many of you feel that this definition is a bit too sophisticated to describe your friend..
Lets me rephrase it in a simple way..
"a friend is a person who helps you.. is with you during every thick and thin.. with someone, you can share everything.."
Now, this statement does not apply to a 'friend' on a social-networking site..
You Might have 400 or 500 'friends' on Facebook or Orkut, but do you share every little thing with them.?
I have 430 odd friends on Facebook, but do I tell them everything.?
You know the answer, i guess..
I have made a reference to this on my status updates earlier..
My suggestion: rename the term 'friend' to 'acquaintance'..
But there may be some instances where you met your soul mate/best friend on the web.. I did.!! (not a soul mate, though)
There are also times when your best buddy turns into a foe..
I experienced this too.. And people, its really hurts..
When all your personal secrets are told to people who are strangers to you..
You know, someone like an informer.. a mediator.. who is working all time to screw your life..
Believe me, they make up a very important part of your life..
Teaches you a very good lesson, indeed..
And yeah, there is an another group of friends, whose company you can't avoid because they had done some favor for you.. Its like, "imposed loyalty"..
And you cannot tell the person that he/she is very irritating..
Its a humorous situation.. May be because I haven't been through it yet..
Now, this category of friends teach you the real meaning of 'patience'and 'tolerance'
Every single person, you meet in your life leaves an impression, good or bad..
Similarly, you too leave a trace on the other person's mind..
Rightly said, ""HAR FRIEND ZAROORI HOTA HAI.!!""
